IncluPair

Community safety

Connection without pressure or dehumanization.

These guidelines protect a community where disability, appearance, identity, and boundaries are treated with respect.

Last updated October 25, 2026

Respect consent and boundaries

  • A connection, reply, photo, or disclosure never implies consent to sexual comments or continued contact.
  • Accept a decline or ended connection without retaliation, repeated contact, or attempts through another account.
  • Do not pressure anyone to disclose a diagnosis, disability, medical history, trauma, or private contact information.

No fetishization, hate, or humiliation

  • Do not reduce people to a disability, scar, limb difference, mobility aid, body, race, gender, sexuality, or other identity.
  • Slurs, degrading comparisons, unwanted sexualization, threats, and celebration of harm are prohibited.
  • Respect how people describe themselves; do not challenge or diagnose another member's disability.

Be authentic and safe

  • No impersonation, misleading relationship status, financial solicitation, romance scams, or requests for passwords and verification codes.
  • No minors, sexual content involving minors, non-consensual intimate imagery, trafficking, or exploitation.
  • Avoid sharing precise home, work, financial, or medical information before trust is established.

Enforcement

Members can block, end a connection, and report a profile or message. Reports are private. Enforcement may include warnings, feature limits, suspension, removal, preservation of evidence, and escalation to appropriate authorities when legally required or necessary to address credible imminent harm.